So, if it is true that “we do the best we can with what we have” , ( as Berny Dohrmann, one of my dearest Mentors says, )
that means we learn from our circumstances when we are children and we just can’t do differently because the knowledge is not in our circumstances. We don’t know differently. It’s not in our data base. Simple. In other words we don’t know the HOW. Right? No data.
So if we do not know the HOW, why should we punish ourselves in the name of data that is not in our hard drive any way. Is it so difficult to accept we don’t know some things beyond our circumstances? Why are we so judgmental about not knowing since it is impossible to know if you didn’t experience certain circumstances.
Why are we in our minds willing to believe that there is a handicap in ourselves if we don’t have all the answers. Don’t you think this belief is interfering with the flow of your Brilliance? Don’t you think this belief is incredibly harsh? So you are supposed to be punished for not being equipped with certain tools. Think about it.
Sorry, this may be harsh too but it is the truth. This is pedagogy of mutilation we are all inflicting in ourselves by participating in that very collective belief.
One of my very favorite quotes of all times is an Albert Einstein quote that says:
Knowledge is only Experience.
Growing up means understanding there are no handicaps in our circumstance only pieces of a great story that needs to be finished. By you.
How?
By going inside and out in the world and finding the HOWS lined up for you BEYOND your own upbringing circumstances. Manifesting a whole new set of tools. The tools of your own unique experience, the tools of your choice. The tools that will shape the soul vision of yourself by simply harnessing the courage to meet the HOWS of your CHOICE and weave them with the experience of your own circumstance. Your story.
I’ll tell you something, the two of them together are a unique match. Yes, the 50 of your personal experience matched with the 50 of HOWS you asked along the way because you needed to experience more, become what I call your own personal USP. (“Unique Selling Proposition”) .
Your Life Purpose sort to speak. Your personal human stamped seal, weaved together by you in a fulfilled personal and business life.
Because ultimately we need to bring your own USP to the business arena. You have so much to contribute with your experience.
Here is to you. Thanks for hanging out.
The Thought Provoking Irreverent Pearl Necklace Grandmother of the 21st C
Luz
The Thought Provoking, Irreverent Pearl Necklace Grandmother of the 21st C. Paradigm Shifter, Poet, Storyteller, Marketer, Visionary, Blogger, Coach. Mrs. Fire
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Ari Galper, the Pioneer Visionary Sales Guru of the 21st C, who dared to bring truth and humanity to the sales equation." Luz is a precious gift to the world. She has single handedly changed hundreds of lives of our Unlock The Game Inner Circle members.
She has an effortless and natural ability to help people see the truth of why they are struggling and then provide a logical path to happiness, authenticity and success. If you get the chance to work with Luz (I know she has a long waiting list of clients), then grab it while you can!"
Suffice it to say, Luz, that you are on my “Top 10 List of Love & Power-filled Women Role Models”. You delightfully epitomize a woman who seamlessly blends ’spirituality’ with Divine power and fun humor…a far cry from the dour, pious saint of yester-century! A new breed of spiritual personification is permeating our present century, and she wears a huuuuuuuuge smile! Thanks so much for being one of her faces!
I especially want to single out Luz Aguirrebena. I’ve only spent a couple sessions with her on the mindset chat forums but can say that these two hours have been worth the price of the entire system. Her suggestions and serving cold caller coaching have adjusted my approach to one of a much more confident, calm, Luz is a true jewel: compassionate, direct, loving, and ever so knowledgeable
What was most exciting about our time together was that Luz is an acute listener and clearly articulates what can be difficult and nebulous ideas or theories in a way that I could understand and take away with me.
Anyone who senses that he or she has some kind of barrier or confusion around an issue would benefit from a session with Luz who quickly and painlessly escorts you through the Mystery in which you find yourself, shows you the highlights and helps you move on
Luz is a keen and perceptive coach, an honest partner and resilient manager. She is ably and ideally suited to focus her cohorts and clients on the important things in business, in a relationship, in life and in our hearts. She is valued and cherished by those around her as a person full of love, sympathy, concern and a practical nature that values simple, compassionate, common sense based solutions to the most intimate wrenching problems we face. I know this because she helped me through difficult and daunting times
That connection with life that one achieves conversing with you is a wonderful feeling!…time stops and one minute becomes an eternity…Difficult to express it in words…You have a gift to connect the other person with with his or her most profound being and revive situations that come back to clarify themes of the past and position them back in a more balanced and sane place in our lives.
My personal experience by your side has been very strong and I believe you have given me many tools to work in my personal development!!!
From my earliest memories of Luzma’s guidance, to my most recent, she has always been confident in her insights, but equally confident in my ability to determine what I need. I’ve known Luzma as long as I’ve known myself because she has taught me how to learn and embrace who I am.
I could think of no better way for Luzma to spend her time than as a life coach. She has always provoked a natural exchange, often by those who are in need of support most but unlikely to share it with friends or family. By Luzma being so sure in her own skin, the apprehensive gravitate toward her and they too lose all inhibition—I’ve seen it! If given the opportunity to expand her coaching, she will help countless more people reach their potential.
I am very thankful for everything you did for me during my divorce. It was difficult and painful to accept. You taught me how to express my emotions without drama.
I’m in awe of her abilities and effect as a counselor or coach. When Luz articulates her insights about psychological or spiritual concepts that I’m already familiar with, she does it with such a lightness and a clarity that these concepts become new for me and, somewhat ironically, bring on a relieving stillness. Following her train of thought has often enabled the transformation in me that I was struggling for but could barely imagine. It’s very much like Dante describes the effect Beatrice has on him in The Paradiso. Without any emotional or intellectual struggle or physical sensation, by following Luz’s train of thought, my perception of the world and myself is suddenly . . . different. . . . and easier
I was thinking about you over the weekend and about how passionate you are about what you do. I truly believe that you are a success because you have taken your passion and made it your life





January 29th, 2010 at 6:59 pm
Wow! This is wonderful. More comment later, but much to chew on here. Thanks, Luz.
January 29th, 2010 at 11:41 pm
Thanks Neal! I am so glad you like it. Did you see the know how? You were writing about it:)
January 30th, 2010 at 3:45 am
Yes, Luz…saw that. Sorry I don’t seem to have the time right now to absorb and respond, but I promise to do so…
January 30th, 2010 at 8:50 pm
Okay…here we go…so much in there.
Yes…it is simply ludicrous, and entirely counter productive to beat up on ourselves because we do not know. As you say, that interferes with the flow of our brilliance. and so right you are. So, let’s just lay that aside.
I like the way you see our hows lined up for us…not so much our job to figure them out…just to delight in them as they show up. As you say, because we need to experience more.
The 50/50 idea is great. Co creation,if you will, and we are the weavers of the beautiful tapestry of life.
Neal
PS There is also a deep intuitive knowing that I am beginning access. It makes belief genuine.
February 26th, 2010 at 3:17 pm
Hola,
Super post, tienen que marcarlo en Digg
Gracias
Boldy
March 3rd, 2010 at 1:06 am
Gracias Boldy! Un abrazo y gracias por la visita.
March 3rd, 2010 at 1:21 am
Beautiful. Thanks my dear!
March 3rd, 2010 at 1:22 am
Not a problem darling. Big hug
March 3rd, 2010 at 1:23 am
Smile
March 20th, 2010 at 7:53 am
MIL GRACIAS my friend
August 16th, 2010 at 1:52 pm
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May 25th, 2011 at 4:37 am
i cant wait to see it,thanks
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