Ari Galper, the Pioneer Visionary Sales Guru of the 21st C, who dared to bring truth and humanity to the sales equation." Luz is a precious gift to the world. She has single handedly changed hundreds of lives of our Unlock The Game Inner Circle members.
She has an effortless and natural ability to help people see the truth of why they are struggling and then provide a logical path to happiness, authenticity and success. If you get the chance to work with Luz (I know she has a long waiting list of clients), then grab it while you can!"
Suffice it to say, Luz, that you are on my “Top 10 List of Love & Power-filled Women Role Models”. You delightfully epitomize a woman who seamlessly blends ’spirituality’ with Divine power and fun humor…a far cry from the dour, pious saint of yester-century! A new breed of spiritual personification is permeating our present century, and she wears a huuuuuuuuge smile! Thanks so much for being one of her faces!
I especially want to single out Luz Aguirrebena. I’ve only spent a couple sessions with her on the mindset chat forums but can say that these two hours have been worth the price of the entire system. Her suggestions and serving cold caller coaching have adjusted my approach to one of a much more confident, calm, Luz is a true jewel: compassionate, direct, loving, and ever so knowledgeable
What was most exciting about our time together was that Luz is an acute listener and clearly articulates what can be difficult and nebulous ideas or theories in a way that I could understand and take away with me.
Anyone who senses that he or she has some kind of barrier or confusion around an issue would benefit from a session with Luz who quickly and painlessly escorts you through the Mystery in which you find yourself, shows you the highlights and helps you move on
Luz is a keen and perceptive coach, an honest partner and resilient manager. She is ably and ideally suited to focus her cohorts and clients on the important things in business, in a relationship, in life and in our hearts. She is valued and cherished by those around her as a person full of love, sympathy, concern and a practical nature that values simple, compassionate, common sense based solutions to the most intimate wrenching problems we face. I know this because she helped me through difficult and daunting times
That connection with life that one achieves conversing with you is a wonderful feeling!…time stops and one minute becomes an eternity…Difficult to express it in words…You have a gift to connect the other person with with his or her most profound being and revive situations that come back to clarify themes of the past and position them back in a more balanced and sane place in our lives.
My personal experience by your side has been very strong and I believe you have given me many tools to work in my personal development!!!
From my earliest memories of Luzma’s guidance, to my most recent, she has always been confident in her insights, but equally confident in my ability to determine what I need. I’ve known Luzma as long as I’ve known myself because she has taught me how to learn and embrace who I am.
I could think of no better way for Luzma to spend her time than as a life coach. She has always provoked a natural exchange, often by those who are in need of support most but unlikely to share it with friends or family. By Luzma being so sure in her own skin, the apprehensive gravitate toward her and they too lose all inhibition—I’ve seen it! If given the opportunity to expand her coaching, she will help countless more people reach their potential.
I am very thankful for everything you did for me during my divorce. It was difficult and painful to accept. You taught me how to express my emotions without drama.
I’m in awe of her abilities and effect as a counselor or coach. When Luz articulates her insights about psychological or spiritual concepts that I’m already familiar with, she does it with such a lightness and a clarity that these concepts become new for me and, somewhat ironically, bring on a relieving stillness. Following her train of thought has often enabled the transformation in me that I was struggling for but could barely imagine. It’s very much like Dante describes the effect Beatrice has on him in The Paradiso. Without any emotional or intellectual struggle or physical sensation, by following Luz’s train of thought, my perception of the world and myself is suddenly . . . different. . . . and easier
I was thinking about you over the weekend and about how passionate you are about what you do. I truly believe that you are a success because you have taken your passion and made it your life
Getting Below the Surface of “Me”
October 29, 2009 at 1:30 pm (Self-Awareness)
So here I am, trying to figure out who this person is that I have been living with my entire conscious life. What is it that made me the person I perceive myself to be right now? What influences, both physical and spiritual have directed me to the place where I stand on this journey? Have I been an active participant in molding myself or have I taken a passive role in developing who I am? Are my answers to these questions filled with 100% honesty? If not, why the heck would I lie to myself? Interesting thought…
My goal at this very moment is not only to find out who I am, but to figure out who or what has taken the most active role in forming who I am up to this point in my life. Furthermore, who or what is going to be responsible for crafting “Me” going forward? Looking back, “Me” has always been what I have projected to the world. I have always felt the confines of this delicate facade that is the surface that I want everyone else to see. It has been chiseled from the beginning by my perception that expectations mattered. It first began to take form when I went against what I wanted, and willfully surrendered to what would make another person happy. As time went on it developed distinct features when I verbally agreed with someone for fear that they would not like me, when I had a distinctly (or even subtly) different opinion. It affixed itself to protect my true “self” as a wall protects a castle, the first time I told myself that I did not succeed because I was not good enough…or that I told myself I did all I could when maybe that was not the case. It gained traction and permanence when I began to believe untruths that my conscious mind kept repeating. At some point, I became exactly what I wanted to project to the world, my friends, family, colleagues, etc…I began to identify with people, things, and places, the things that seemed like they mattered. In this process, the real Ross Welte was lost. I stopped being the one responsible for who I am. The person I projected was a direct result of the situation I was in…I am not saying that I was two-faced, or what people would consider a bad person, in fact quite the opposite was true…When you do everything you can to make everyone around you happy, people are bound to like you! But is that really you? Are you scared to find the real you for fear that “they” might not like what they see? Are you afraid that YOU might not like what you see?
Lose the Mask, Find Yourself
Years of hiding, lying to, and protecting yourself means that it is no small task to figure out what lies beneath it all. Letting go of things that you have believed about yourself for so long can seem unbearable. Many people fear change because they perceive it to mean that everything that they have done up to this point in their lives is now meaningless or wrong in some way. Realize right now that this is not the case. Whether you are 26 or 76, everything in your life has brought you to this point of figuring out who you are and why you are here. This is such a gift! You have the opportunity to live the rest of your life in the spirit of self-discovery, purpose, and passion…How sweet is that? Some people live and die without ever having this opportunity! You have that opportunity, right now, and now, and now… to be present in your own life instead of watching from the sidelines as the world tells you who you are, how to behave, and what is expected of you. Take back the authority of your own life to craft yourself into the person that you are supposed to be, that you want to be. Exciting? I think so
I listened to a conversation with Michael Beckwith and he made a statement that I think can really help to illustrate how we can start this process of self-discovery. He said that most people live life from their “memory bank,” like a filing cabinet of all past experiences that dictate what you do and believe about future experiences. Think about that concept. Living your life from the past…it is no longer You, living in the now, crafting your life. It is letting this filing cabinet of things in the past determine what you do today. Seems a little crazy doesn’t it? We wonder why we get stuck in “ruts” don’t we? We do the same things, over and over, and hope that something different will come of it? We need to release ourselves!!! Stop living with linear thought. We are so wrapped up in the concept of TIME that we can’t let go of the past. I say this, Let go of the past. Take the lessons that you learned there and let it go. Stop living from the memory bank and open yourself up to letting it flow from somewhere new, that inner you that is in touch with something bigger. Create in your mind a new image or feeling of “You.”
(I am far away from what I planned to write about in this post, but the plan is really of little consequence.
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The real “You” exists. The mask that the world sees does not. My life has been filled with different masks and things that brought me to a place where I was not sure what the real me looked like. It is interesting as I look back on my short life and see the things I have told myself about “Me” that have turned out to be false. I was not being honest with myself, and therefore I was lost. I am on my way to removing the masks, peeling back the layers of the onion, and discovering the magnificent truths that do exist at the core of who I am. You can do the same thing. Ask yourself, how many of the beliefs about yourself were formed by you and you alone. How many of those beliefs have been crafted for you by society, expectations, and lies while you stood as a silent observer and tried on whatever seemed to fit? In hopes of tying some common theme through this post (although I am not sure that will happen) I just want to leave with this… If you are not molding and building “You,” who is?…do you want the final say? Are you ok with change? Are you prepared to be 100% honest with yourself and break down the walls that shield your core from the rest of the world? Like someone who is learning to play the piano, they have to learn how before they can actually create music. Once they learn the basics, eventually they will release themselves and what were once just individual notes are now flowing together as MUSIC from a source other than written notes and technical skill. The same goes for finding ourselves. We need to work on the basics and figure out “how to play.” However long that takes, as difficult as it may seem, at some point we will have a release and be able to “make music” with our lives, purpose, and passion…Then we can share it with the world.
With Gratitude to You,
~Ross
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Luz
The Thought Provoking, Irreverent Pearl Necklace Grandmother of the 21st C. Paradigm Shifter, Poet, Storyteller, Marketer, Visionary, Blogger, Coach. Mrs. Fire
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