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I had a message in my head, it reinforced one of those old  ideas that was inserted in my thinking by close to 7 generations of  ancestors.

It felt  almost like  I was supposed to be on an ivory tower and didn’t need feedback. It was like a voice with entitled  authority  in my mind would say  “You don’t need  feedback”.  The voice would reinforce  the idea of  no need  for acknowledgment. In a repetitive way.

Familiar?

Kind of pretending you are not there.  So, somehow it wouldn’t matter what you did anyway,  right? That is the message. It doesn’t matter. You don’t matter to a large degree.

Somehow the reinforcement and confirmation of your accomplishments by somebody else is not permitted. Furthermore it is  somewhat perceived as vain. I was to be sure enough of myself. Buying into the false humility of  denying yourself  and  your  splendor.

The curse of separation. It was present almost like  an unspoken island syndrome isolating me from the world.

You know?  We are so used to think of our individual selves as islands. Separated.

Do you know what I mean? Thoughts of isolation.

I want to say now, by virtue of all of that, embrace feed back. When you are in your soul purpose contributing to the world with you passion,  receiving feedback openly and gracefully is part of the story. Furthermore, it is an important element in the process, the confirmation, the mirror, the reflection of your work. Without it you are isolated.

It is through the reflection of others that you start recovering all the pieces of your lost self. They give you yourself back.  The reflection of your contribution. Like the open book of your story. That is the beauty.

Without the feedback you don’t know if there is a real conversation going on. It would be a monologue.

So,   is good  to continue the conversation about being all one. What does it mean. How does it feel to be all one with the Universe. The feedback is part of the acknowledgment we all need to reconnect.

It’s no more than the willing testimonial offered in exchange for a great customer service.:) As always, the real foundation of relationships in business and in life. The personal crest that shows your contribution. The personal crest that shows you care and can be trusted to solve a problem. You care enough to show me the respect to meet me in the Magic of the Middle Line.

That oneness that unites the Condor in the South with the Eagle in the North. As the Mayan prophecy tells..

Luz

The Thought Provoking Irreverent Pearl Necklace Grandmother of the 21st C.

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So, if it is true that “we do the best we can with what we have” , ( as Berny Dohrmann,  one of my dearest Mentors says, )

that means we learn from our circumstances when we are children and we just can’t do differently because the knowledge is not in our circumstances.  We don’t know differently. It’s not in our data base.  Simple. In other words we don’t know the HOW. Right? No data.

So if we do not know the HOW, why should we punish ourselves in the name of data that is not in our hard drive any way.  Is it so difficult to accept we don’t know some things beyond our circumstances?  Why are we so judgmental about not knowing since it is impossible to know if you didn’t experience certain circumstances.

Why are we in our minds willing to believe that there is a handicap in ourselves if we don’t have all the answers. Don’t you think this belief  is interfering with the flow of your Brilliance? Don’t you think this belief is incredibly harsh? So  you are supposed to be punished for not being equipped with certain tools. Think about it.

Sorry, this may be harsh too but it is the truth. This is  pedagogy of mutilation we are all inflicting in ourselves by participating in that very collective belief.

One of my very favorite quotes of all times is an Albert Einstein quote that says:

Knowledge is only Experience.

Growing up means understanding there are no handicaps in our circumstance only pieces of a great story that needs to be finished.  By you.

How?

By going inside and out in the world and finding the HOWS lined up for you BEYOND your own upbringing circumstances. Manifesting a whole new set of tools.  The tools of your own unique experience, the tools of your choice. The tools that will shape the soul vision of yourself by simply harnessing  the courage to meet the HOWS of your CHOICE and weave them with the experience of your own circumstance. Your story.

I’ll tell you something,  the two of them together are a unique match. Yes, the 50 of your personal experience matched with the 50 of HOWS you asked along the way because you needed to experience more, become what I call your own personal USP.  (“Unique Selling Proposition”) .

Your Life Purpose sort to speak. Your personal human stamped seal,  weaved together by you in a fulfilled personal and business life.

Because ultimately we need to bring your own USP to the business arena. You have so much to contribute with your experience.

Here is to you. Thanks for hanging out.

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